Sometimes There is No Resolution

"We need to recognize that there are some conflicts between people that cannot be resolved. Two sides may have hurt each other too much; they provoke too much fear and anguish in one another. They are unable to admit their own wounded state. The only solution then is a separation which can give each side the space and the time to re-find inner peace, and to reflect quietly." ~Jean Vanier

This quote arrived in my inbox immediately after the previous quote that I referenced from Jean Vanier. This seemed particularly appropriate in regards to the process of reconciliation that is ongoing within Canadian society. This reflects an ideal way in which resolution and reconciliation can take place.

It may be possible that reconciliation may never truly occur within Canada between the government and First Nations peoples. There is a lack of mutuality in how the parties are addressing reconciliation, specifically how the government is willing to compromise and admit wrongdoing in the past. This conflict may never be resolved because of all the past wrongs and the present issues. There is fear that the reconciliation process may only continue the process of colonization, which is entirely justified. This process also brings the anguish and pain that was faced by First Nations to the forefront of thought and consciousness.

The process of reconciliation is hindered by the fact that each party is not able to find space from each other to gain inner peace and reflection. First Nations cannot leave Canada because it was and is their home. There is no other country in the world that they are able to access a portion of their connection to the land and many governments may have done more damage than the Canadian government. It is not possible to gain time to reflect on what has happened as it is constantly necessary to fight for rights and funding support. The government has had the time to gain reflection and I hope that they will never be able to gain inner peace for their actions.

The process of resolution and reconciliation in Canada will never be ideal. The conditions for it be occur are compromised by the reality of daily life that are necessary for the survival of First Nations communities, as well as the daily functioning of government that needs to address a myriad of issues. Admittedly, more time could be spent on reconciliation and improving the quality of life in First Nations communities. Despite the lack of ideal conditions for reconciliation, it is necessary to ensure that reconciliation does occur in a timely fashion to address past and present wrong doings that continue to occur.